How to Turn Your Wishes into Your Reality - Part 3 - Prioritize & Visualize

This is the third post in a series about making your wishes into reality. You can catch up here:

Last Week

Last week I wrote about Do's NOT Don'ts and how the subconscious works in images and feelings, so negatives don't tend to compute.  Your wish must be stated in the affirmative. Wish for what you WANT not what you don't want. Okay, so now you're ready for the next steps: Prioritize and Visualize.


Prioritizing is a simple act of making one wish more important than another. It's simple, yes, but not always easy. Sometimes it's hard to pick between making 6 figures at basket weaving, your current passion OR finding that 5 bedroom vintage beach house on the north side of the island you've been dreaming about for years.

And you really don't have to pick between having one or the other; what you need to do is decide which is more important right now. This doesn't have to be too hard. Think about it logically: when the Universe presents you with the opportunity to buy exactly the beach house you've been doodling in the margins of your notebook, you're going to want the mulah to buy it, right?

So make the 6 figure income priority number1 and the house number 2.

Go grab your list. Now look at it with both the eyes of passion and the laser gaze of logic. What makes sense to put first? What will set you up nicely for the next wish?

When you have, say, the desire to write and publish your first novel up against that basket weaving career, I would pick the one that will give you the money and therefore more time down the road to work on the other. The book doesn't have to wait that long, either. You can be weaving baskets by day and book writing by night.

HOWEVER, I caution you to get one started and established before adding the other. Here's where logic plays in: get the one rolling that will pay the bills first. I always say when it comes to writing a novel don't make it pay the bills or you'll kill the joy of it. Just my opinion for what it's worth.

Okay, so now you have a numbered list, right? Rewrite it in order and let's start visualizing Numero Uno.


Now we're going to create a clear and detailed picture of what it means to have that wish come true. First you want to write out all the details of what your wish will look, feel, taste, smell, and sound like. Where are you? Who are you with? What are you eating, drinking? Is there music? Wind? The sound of the ocean waves?

What are you wearing? Where are you going? Is the sky blue? Or are the stars up above?

Get really, really clear what your wish will feel like, as well. What emotions are you feeling? What sensations are you experiencing?

Got it? Good.

Now you're going to set a few minutes aside every single day to visualize this wish of yours as if it's already come true. Start your morning off with a hot beverage and a few quiet moments visualizing your dream come true.

Need some help? Not good at this visualization thing? Then you'll want to join my private Facebook group where you can download a guided visualization meditation I recorded just for my insiders. Click HERE~>The Karma Couch Connection to join.

Not sure about this visualization technique? Did you know athletes use it all the time? They see the basketball already in the hoop or see themselves crossing the finish line first. Jack Canfield also talks about why it's so effective in realizing your goals. Click HERE~>Visualization Techniques to read his article on the subject.

And come right back here next week for Step 4: Wishing Big & Baby Steps

Peace out

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