How to Turn Your Wishes Into Your Reality - Part 2 - Be Positive

This is the second post in a series about making your wishes into reality. You can catch up here:

Part 1 - Be Brave

Last Week

Last week I talked about reclaiming your faith  and having the courage to make wishes once again. As we grow up, we lose our child-like belief because our wishes rarely manifest. But I am here to tell you it's not your fault and the reason so many of your wishes didn't come true is because you were never taught the real magic. The truth is you can't just wish upon a star. That's only the first step.

You have to follow through and take radical action.

And I'm here to show you exactly how to do that! So let's get to it.

Let's review Step 1. Be Brave

The first ingredient in wish manifesting is the courage to make the wish in the first place and then write it down. Writing it down brings it from the mysterious energetic field of our consciousness and out into the physical world. It goes from a thought made of energy to an idea formed out of ink and paper. This is why so many self-help gurus tell you to write your goals down. Its the first step in making them real.

Now, the next step...

Step 2. Be positive

You have to make sure you're wishing for things you WANT, not what you don't want. I call this the Dos NOT the Don'ts Principle. It's basic Law of Attraction stuff: where attention goes energy flows.

Your wish must be stated in the affirmative. 

Here's another way to look at it: your subconscious works in symbols and images versus the conscious mind which is dominated by language and the written word. Check out the Psychology Today article I linked to and you'll see that this is not some abstract spiritual concept; it is stone cold science. And it has broad implications about the domination of culture and education by logic and rational thinking.

What Does This All Mean?

So what this means is you need to make your wishes in the affirmative, not the subtractive. There's no big red X over the image of what you don't want. If you say "I don't want to be depressed: you conjure up an image AND the feeling of being depressed. The message to your subconscious? Bring on the depression! Gloom, sad feelings, dark days.

What you want to wish instead is "I wish to feel happy and positive." Now your subconscious is literally getting the picture, an image of sunshine and smiles.

The Subconscious Uses Symbols and Imagery

The subconscious only knows you are conjuring a feeling and imagery, not that you DON'T want that experience. And yes, this is why self-help and spiritual gurus drive home the concept of positive thought. What you think creates your reality. There is no escaping this truth. If you are a cynic like I used to be, then I challenge you to try changing your negative thoughts into positive ones. But the magic is in the intention, my friends. You can't half-ass this.

"I am willing to change" 

If you really want to change your negative tendencies to positive ones and you're having a hard time, Louise Hay recommends you start with the willingness to change. Repeat to yourself all day long, hundreds of times "I am willing to change."

Want to super charge it? Touch your throat, where the 5th Chakra resides, the Throat Chakra Vishuddha. When this energetic point in the body is open negativity is transformed into wisdom and learning. When it is closed that negativity turns inward, rotting us from the inside out.

Want to make your wishes come true? You've got to be positive. You've got to raise your vibration to attract more positive experiences.

Write It Down

Did you write down your wish yet? Do it now! I recommend keeping a wish journal. My new favorite journaling technique is bullet journaling. Follow the link to find out how to create your own bullet journal. Make a collection of Wishes. Write down your wishes, then create a Collection spread for each wish. Edit all your wished so they vibrate higher, in a positive way.

Next Week

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