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Why Finding Your Soul's Purpose Never Works Out the Way You Planned

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What is all this fuss about finding your soul's purpose, anyway? I mean, what the heck, people. Seems like just another stressful thing you have to do to be happy and it never works out the way you planned, right?

Wrong.

I mean...I know it never quite works out the way you want. It's frustrating, right? Here you embarked on this "spiritual" journey to find your soul's purpose, get fulfilled, and all that crap, but at the end of the day all you found was disappointment, dissatisfaction, and a real fear that you may not be talented at anything.

What's "wrong" isn't our disappointing experience; that's a fact. What's wrong is the way we think we have to go about finding our soul's purpose AND what we think our soul's purpose is...because THAT is why we become disillusioned.

The Right Way Discovering your soul's purpose does NOT require a specific type of work or long, lonely nights of soul-searching. There's no magic formula…

How to Turn Your Wishes into Your Reality - Part 6: Meditate

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This is the 6th post in a series about turning your wishes into reality. You can catch up here: Part 1 - Be Brave Part 2 - Be Positive
Part 3 - Prioritize & Visualize
Part 4 - Be Ethical
Part 5 - Believe

Last Post My last post on wishing was all about the power of your belief systems. Basically, if you believe you can, you will. If you believe you can't, you won't. It really is that simple. Now, don't get confused into thinking belief is all you need. Nope. There's a few other things you need to do to make your wishes into reality...like meditating.
Get Your Mind Right I can hear your eyes rolling. Okay, so maybe you've heard this too many times already, but meditation is the standard for creating the kind of mindset required to be a kick ass wish manifestor. I seriously don't know of a more profound practice for changing your life...and that's really what we're after, aren't we? A new life?
So make the time for meditation.  Every.  Single.  Day. Jus…

How to Turn Your Wishes into Your Reality - Part 5: Believe

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This is the 5th post in a series about turning your wishes into reality. You can catch up here: Part 1 - Be Brave Part 2 - Be Positive
Part 3 - Prioritize & Visualize
Part 4 - Be Ethical

Last Post In the last post I talked about the ethics of wishing. Bottom line? Keep your wishes off of other people and focus on you and what you can do, not what others can do for you. Next, let's look at the power of belief.
You Got To Believe it to See It This is the Tinker Bell Affect: you have to believe in them or they die. Fairies and wishes live off the same nectar: optimism and a little bit of magic. If you're struggling to believe in your dreams, if you can't seem to muster the feelings required, then it's time to do some self-reflection. Ask yourself why you are having such a hard time believing in the possibility of making your wish come true. Most of us have doubts; that's just par for the human course. But if we want to take our lives to the next level, we need to do s…

How to Turn Your Wishes into Your Reality - Part 4: Be Ethical

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This is the 4th post in a series about turning your wishes into reality. You can catch up here: Part 1 - Be Brave Part 2 - Be Positive
Part 3 - Prioritize & Visualize

Last Week Last week I wrote about the need to prioritize and to visualize when it comes to turning wishes into reality. Prioritizing is about understanding how wishes relate to each other, you need the money before you can buy the dream house, and how much time you have to focus on your wishes. You can get them all, but not necessarily all at once. 
Visualizing your wish coming true is science, baby. Athletes do it. CEOs do it. Movers and shakers do it. They also feel it. Ever watch the movie or read the book The Secret? The one thing I wish they'd made more clear was the need to create the feels. The Universe is a yes universe, but it doesn't respond to the words or the thoughts. It's more like magnetism: the Universe brings more of what you are you feeling. Feel as if you're life is abundant and it wil…

How to Turn Your Wishes into Your Reality - Part 3 - Prioritize & Visualize

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This is the third post in a series about making your wishes into reality. You can catch up here:Part 1 - Be Brave Part 2 - Be Positive Last Week Last week I wrote about Do's NOT Don'ts and how the subconscious works in images and feelings, so negatives don't tend to compute.  Your wish must be stated in the affirmative. Wish for what you WANT not what you don't want. Okay, so now you're ready for the next steps: Prioritize and Visualize. Prioritize Prioritizing is a simple act of making one wish more important than another. It's simple, yes, but not always easy. Sometimes it's hard to pick between making 6 figures at basket weaving, your current passion OR finding that 5 bedroom vintage beach house on the north side of the island you've been dreaming about for years.

And you really don't have to pick between having one or the other; what you need to do is decide which is more important right now. This doesn't have to be too hard. Think about it l…

How to Turn Your Wishes Into Your Reality - Part 2 - Be Positive

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This is the second post in a series about making your wishes into reality. You can catch up here:Part 1 - Be Brave


Last Week Last week I talked about reclaiming your faith  and having the courage to make wishes once again. As we grow up, we lose our child-like belief because our wishes rarely manifest. But I am here to tell you it's not your fault and the reason so many of your wishes didn't come true is because you were never taught the real magic. The truth is you can't just wish upon a star. That's only the first step.

You have to follow through and take radical action.
And I'm here to show you exactly how to do that! So let's get to it.

Let's review Step 1. Be Brave The first ingredient in wish manifesting is the courage to make the wish in the first place and then write it down. Writing it down brings it from the mysterious energetic field of our consciousness and out into the physical world. It goes from a thought made of energy to an idea formed out o…

How to Turn Your Wishes Into Your Reality - Part 1 - Be Brave

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How many times have you wished on the first star to appear in the evening sky? Has it been awhile? I dutifully wish on the evening star every chance I get and have been for as long as I can remember.

From the first time I wished upon a star, I've been all about the wishing. The first memory I have of wishing on the evening star is in the back of my mom's Volkswagon Beetle. I think it was summer because her window was part way down, my forehead was pressed against the window glass, and my hair whipped around my face.

The evening air was cooling. I was mesmerized by the blue sky darkening between the treetops as we buzzed along the country road. I strained my neck to see the strip of evening sky between the darkness. Suddenly, the sky opened, the trees parting for a cornfield. And there, low on the horizon in the twilight was a single, bright star. Probably the planet Venus, but that doesn't matter and wouldn't have mattered to me in the slightest at that moment.

"L…